When your decisions are driven by the desire to please God rather than to please men, you’ll never regret your decisions.
What will people say?
What will they think of me?
Such above question have ruined visions, happiness, and lives.
Who formed you?
Who knows the best for you?
Who knows your strengths and weaknesses better?
Who knows the end from the beginning?
Who has the final say in your life?
Who will you give an account to at the end of your journey?
You know the answer to these questions as well as I do.
If God is your answer, whose validation do you need for a go ahead. God knows the best for you in life, and only his judgement counts. Only his approval and disapproval counts.
When you get to understand this fact, you’ll never let that question ” what will people say or think of me” determine your decisions and actions in life.
Can you ever please the world?
No matter what you do, how much your try, you’ll never get everyone to like you.
Even Jesus Christ was not loved by everyone, when he was on earth. Who are you to make the world love you.
Let your decisions be based on pleasing God first. The world will adjust with time.
Your ideas, decisions, reasons might not make sense to man but as long as it pleases God, it will yield good results that will give you lasting joy.
Humans can give you advice and suggestions, but you have the final decision to make, learn to filter advice, because you are accountable for the outcome of your decisions, no one will share your failures and pain with you, they can only sympathize with you but can’t feel your pain as much as you do, neither will you use others as an excuse at the end of your journey.
Why are you afraid of making decisions and taking that bold step that will change your life for good?
Why are you afraid of stepping into your purpose.
Why are you still with friends that you know are ruining your life?
Why are you afraid of walking out of that toxic relationship that is draining your energy and happiness.
Why are you still holding on to that abusive marriage?
You have been given to power to take charge and manage the affairs of your life, you determine what happens in it. Your decisions and actions are strongly attached to your future and happiness.